30 June, 2014

How far is too far to carry the gospel?

Vondrozo
Farafangana is a small city on the SE coast of Madagascar.  Traditionally it is the home of the Antefasy people; although other peoples live among the Antefasy here.  My trip to Farafangana this past week with my friend, Pastor Kris, was for the purpose of discovering some of the smaller people groups that live in the region around Farafangana.  In the past I have gone out with a small list of peoples to look for and most of the time I find at most one, or even none on my list.  For this trip I had 3 peoples I was looking for...and God lead us to find 3 people groups!  We were able to locate the Antevato-Be, Sahafatra & Sahavoay in our short 3 days in the region! 
 Overall we drove 1330km (~850 miles) on mostly poor roads, with ~155miles being truly off-road in our 4x4.  We were able to see parts of Madagascar that I have never seen before-and even my Malagasy friend, Pastor Kris, had never seen before. 


The "national" road to Vondrozo
On our first day in Farafangana we teamed up with some short-term Journey-women missionaries who work with the Antefasy to visit some villages along the road to Vondrozo.  We were able to find more Antefasy, as well as one our people groups called the Sahavoay in a large market village called Lohatranambo.  On the second day we were on the road before the sun was up and were able to make it all the way to Vondrozo, home of the Sahafatra.  Vondrozo is home to about 20,000 and is a large market town that sits on what used to be the major road before it fell into disrepair over the last 20+ years.  Now, the road beyond Vondrozo is impassable to all but a motocross style motorcycle. 
Vondrozo
We had the privilege of meeting with the Mayor of the town/region of Vondrozo as well as the President of the fokontany (tribal leadership), and other leaders of the area.  We sat & talked with these men for quite awhile and then they offered to walk us around their town, showing us the major things to see & do.  This is the method they use to show the community that we have been accepted, and are therefore given the Mayor's & fokontany president's protection while we are there.  We discovered that there is zero evangelical Christian presence in Vondrozo—but they seem to be open to the message of the Gospel. 
I have been to many villages here in Madagascar, and we always look for a “person of peace,” that person who becomes a figurative door-opener for ministry to be done.  Never before has the person of peace been the Mayor of the town/region!  

16 June, 2014

The last few months on the Mahoney front

I loved doing my 1st 5K with the bigs!
Helping Zoey finish strong in the 5K
So... here's what we have been doing from the end of March through May. I will save June for another time... 

March 31st-April 10th :
My green ninja (VBS performance)
We were in S. Africa for a company meeting.  It was a very busy time, but we loved getting to see and talk to many of our friends on this island and meeting new people from other nearby countries.  The kids had a blast participating in VBS while we were in class.  Also the bigs and I did our first 5K together.  We were so proud of them for finishing.

My blue avenger (VBS performance)




Zoey & Mommy pampering time in Jo-burg
April 17th-May 17th:
We moved back to the language city, Antsirabe.  We had very rocky beginnings, but God has brought us through.  About a week after we moved, Eli started back to school at his old French school.  Several children were very happy to have him back at the school (including his good friend) and Eli was very happy too!  Huge blessing and praise!  Added bonus...he gets to sleep in a little longer and has less homework at his new school. This makes his mommy happy too. :)
Eli and Madame Sandrine (his new teacher)
First day of school


May 18-25th:
The kids & I enjoyed some time with Jason and Adam on the beginning and end of their time here.  The kids had fun playing games with the guys and singing for them-- and the guys especially loved watching the Wiggles with the kids! ;)  Allie still tries to imitate a game that Jason taught the kids while he was here.

The girls enjoyed Adam
Adam was sad to say goodbye ;)



Adam paid the bigs to take a pic with him :)

Dragon game
Jason's response to Eli's stink

Fun times

Also while the team was gone, God blessed me with courage and boldness to get out and about through the town taking a pousse-pousse wherever I went and meeting many new people and becoming comfortable again with my surroundings.  This was the result of what God had been trying to teach me through a difficult time recently-- that I needed to not close myself in, but to get out and be with the Malagasy even when it was the opposite of what I wanted. 

May 31st:
Zoey and I enjoyed going to Rina's (our friend & guard) youngest sister's wedding.  It was our first Malagasy wedding and we even got to take the bride and groom to the church which was way out in the countryside (which meant that I did some off-roading!).  Zo (Rina's wife) informed me that it was Malagasy custom to honk the horn to announce the bride and groom, so of course I very gladly obliged (perhaps I enjoyed it a little too much). ;)  I was very happy to see Zoey enjoying some play time in a big pile of hay at the church and she even made a new friend.

Rina, Zo & Nambina with the bride & groom

Rina and Zoey


Zoey and her new friend
Zoey is really getting the hang of school and she is even teaching her mommy new things.  She enjoys learning French via Rosetta Stone, she is beginning to learn to read and she is getting better at her numbers and math.  And as always she can make a new friend anywhere.



Recent Alleluia stories:  One day last month when I put her down for a nap,
She is a "mess"!
she was not very happy to be in her bed.  So she proceeded to make a lot of noise.  First, she called , "DA-DDY" (in the loudest voice she could muster) multiple times for a few minutes.  But daddy didn't come.  So next, she called,
Sassy...
"MO-MMY" (also as loud as she could) for a few minutes.  But mommy didn't come.  Finally, in hopes of getting a better response, she called out, "JE-SUS! JE-SUS!"
On another occasion, I asked her, "What is your name?"  She responds very matter-of-factly, "Jesus." 





But always fun!
Ok, last story I promise...a few weeks ago, we met up with some missionary
Love her smile!
friends from another part of the island.  It was so great to catch up with them
and to have their kids play with our kids.  But for me, the highlight of our time was when Alleluia ordered our friend, Tim, to pray with her.  First they bowed their heads to pray, but that was not enough for Miss Allie, next we see her showing, no more like coercing, Tim how to prostrate himself flat on the ground to the "accurate" prayer position.  I wish I had been quick enough with the camera to catch that in a picture (oh, and just for the record she does not practice the same form that she was showing Tim that day--LOL).
Praise
Shortly after we moved, God answered a prayer that I didn't think I had even voiced, but probably some of you were praying it.  A few days after we got here, we heard a ring at our doorbell and there were several neighbor kids who wanted to play with Eli and Zoey.  This was/is a big deal for Zoey since I am homeschooling her and she loves being with other kids, but also our new yard is very small so the kids have nowhere to play, but now they can play in the neighbor's yard.  Praise God for His goodness and kindness!

Flying kites with our neighbors

02 June, 2014

How do we get there from here...?

The last couple months have been an extra busy time for us here in Madagascar! We appreciate all of your prayers as we seek to reach the micro people groups living in difficult to reach places. Sometimes we need to use creative means in order to merely have access to some of our peoples.
The region around Andilamena is very difficult to travel through...
For instance; in March I (Andy) had to use a helicopter to be able to visit Andilamena, home to the Tanosimbohangy people. I got together with some friends from the Tana area to use a Helimission helicopter (what a great organization!). When I tried to drive to Andilamena in January it took me the better part of 2 days, and I still never made it! With the assistance of Helimission I was there in 90 minutes! Our landing caused quite a stir in such a small town, on market day nonetheless! Market day is the time when people living in all of the smaller outlying villages come to town in order to buy certain foods & sundries that they cannot make or grow on their own. We knew no one in Andilamena before we left Tana, so we prayed that God would introduce us to the people we needed to meet once we landed there. Enter Jermaine; from the moment we landed he became our helper and guide as we went around Andilamena! He even steered us through an hour long meeting with the Town leadership (10-12 people) consisting of mayor, town president, elders, police & military. While walking around town, I was able to talk of spiritual things with Jermaine and discovered that he is a believer, and he volunteered to help take part in any church work we would do there in Andilamena! What an answer to prayer! We do have a church lined up to partner with the Tanosimbohangy, and hope to have our first team going there later this year!
The Pangalana Canal in Mananjary

Last week, I had the privilege of taking a small team from Anderson Mill Road Baptist Church (The Mill) out to Mananjary, along the eastern coast of Madagascar. Mananjary is home for the Antambahoaka people; although many other peoples call it home as well. Our fist time to Mananjary with the Mill we used a Mission Aviation Fellowship flight to travel there, taking about 1.5 hours. This trip we drove 1.5 days often on pot-hole filled, narrow 2-lane roads to get to Mananjary. During this trip we were able to meet with Pastor Gaetan, a Malagasy Pastor who is a pioneer evangelist and leads 19 churches in the area! He works mainly in the rural setting around Mananjary, extending northward along the coast to Nosy Varika. He is someone that we look forward to partnering with in the future. Since his work focuses on the village setting, we are hoping to work in the larger market towns to start churches and then train people who can work with Pastor Gaetan in starting more churches out in the smaller bush villages. 
Pastor Gaetan & his family
During this trip we got to meet with Pastor Gaetan who shared with us how he was healed from a sickness that he had suffered from for more than 10 years! We worked alongside Pastor Gaetan each of the 3 full days we were in Mananjary. We visited the sick, prayed for people who had lost loved ones, taught some kids how to play tic-tac-toe in the sand, and then shared the Good News of Jesus Christ with them. Additionally, we played basketball with some of the local young men at a public court and shared with them as well. They had many questions about the Christian life, and we pray that some will take the message to heart and choose to follow Jesus. We visited the village of Amboanato, our main location on our November, 2013 trip. The village king was very happy to see us-he even smiled & made jokes! We gave him a gift of a Bible, in Malagasy, for him and his family to share, as well as some soccer balls for the kids to enjoy. 
We also made some good preparations for a medical team to come and serve the people in Mananjary, and Amboanato in September of this year. Please pray for the planning and preparations for this upcoming trip. We will be doing some medical education at the regional hospital, as well as seeing some patients. Then we will go up to Amboanato for some time to see patients there as well! 
 
God has certainly gone before us, and has opened some great opportunities for us that we did not see our first couple times to the region. We are so thankful for your prayer support and your giving to the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering and the Cooperative Program. Because of your giving, we are able to go to these difficult to reach places and share the life-giving Message of Jesus Christ! Thanks to The Mill for sending Adam & Jason, and thanks to Adam's & Jason's families for sacrificing so that they could come and work along side of us!!


Adam & Jason, from The Mill. 



10 May, 2014

Our Grief and His Glory



Lamentations 3:32-33
​​​​​​​​“but, though he cause grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance of his steadfast love; for he does not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men.

When God created us, He created us for one purpose: to worship Him, to bring glory to His wonderful name.  John Piper says it this way, “Missions is not the ultimate goal of the church. Worship is. Missions exists because worship doesn't.”

I agree with that statement, but what I didn’t know before becoming a missionary was that true worship is not easier when you become a missionary.  Sure there are days that we can truly and easily worship our Savior because of His glory and goodness revealed, but then I must confess there are many other days that we personally become distracted by our own griefs or grievances of this other life.  We grieve over our distance from family and friends, we grieve over all the many transitions that we & our kids must endure, not to mention the grievances we have from lack of many modern conveniences that we were accustomed to.  All of these things become greatly magnified when we struggle often with sickness, experience loss, and encounter the enemy’s attacks.  We become weary, tired and homesick.

I say all that to say that we have had real struggles with these things, but our desire remains the same, we want to glorify God and some day we want to see our people groups gathered around His throne worshiping our Savior. 

·         Please pray that we would truly worship our Savior in spirit and in truth no matter what path He has for us.
·         Please pray that our grief would be used for His glory.
·         Please pray that our knees would become sore because of the time spent together in prayer.

We don’t pretend to understand Job’s suffering, but please use this verse to pray for us at this time:
Job 3:10b “‘Shall we accept good from God, and not trouble?’ In all this, Job did not sin in what he said.”

Please know that we are very much aware that all of you have your own struggles and sorrows and we would be honored to help carry the burden with you.  Even though we can’t walk with you in person, we would love to uplift you in prayer.  Please tell us how we can pray for you!

17 March, 2014

Silence in the Storm…is God sleeping? But then there is Peace…He is Peace.



Have you ever prayed so much about something that you just knew God would surely make His will clear, but He seemed to remain silent no matter how often, how loud and how hard you cried out to Him during the storm?  Recently I felt like the disciples in the boat watching the storm wage around me, calling out for God to rescue us (simply to reveal His perfect will) only to wonder if He would continue to sleep while we poured out our hearts to Him.  Surely He knew our hearts desire and heard the constant knocking that beckoned Him to meet with us so that we might hear from Him.  Was that not what He meant when He asked us to be perseverant in prayer?
            We were eager to start our ministry here in Tana when we moved here over a year ago in the beginning of January 2013.  It took us a while to adjust, but after our second move here, we began to adjust, at least the kids and I did.  We had hoped that Andy’s allergies would get better after our move to this new house.  We loved the openness of our new house that let in a lot more sunshine and a nice breeze from our two big windows.  But Andy continued to struggle with little sleep, headaches, constant congestion & itchiness, puffy eyes and exhaustion.  I really didn’t realize the extent of his misery until he called our medical contact in the states (in the beginning of February) to be able to get to Johannesburg, South Africa to see an allergist (for the 2nd time) there.  It was also apparent that all of the medicines he had been taking were not cutting it.
            It was our hope that when Andy got to Joburg, he would have some relief because we had begun to realize that the pollution in Tana was making his allergies quite a bit worse.  Unfortunately things did not get better there right away, and the allergist told Andy that he needed to have allergy shots or he needed to avoid the things that he was allergic to (which include dust, fresh cut grass, dogs/cats).  He was also told by the allergist that the pollution was lowering his threshold to combat his allergies (because he had been exposed to the same allergens in Antsirabe minus the pollution and he did not have these same problems).  The problem with allergy shots is that we can’t get them here in Tana and it is impossible for them to administer them to him as often as he would need with us being so far away and the cost being so great—we soon realized that this was not an option if we wanted to stay on the mission field.  So we were left with one other option, we must move again!
            So after much prayer, we have decided to move back to Antsirabe (the city we were in for language school).  This decision was very difficult for both of us, and personally, I wanted to kick and scream and say no, but I just couldn’t.  I am finally beginning to realize that I was in denial at first, not wanting to think about another possible move or transition for our family, but then God began to open my eyes to see how miserable Andy has been and how difficult it was for him to function, let alone do his job he was called here to do.  And I guess this is how God was showing us His answer, by me letting go of control of the situation and having all the signs point to yet another move.  Of course, there were many concerns for our family in this move, but we were also concerned with how this would affect all our workers (our Malagasy family).  Would they be able to get jobs?  How would they respond?  But our peace about this came only after we had already made the decision to move and began to tell them and others.  The most telling response was when Rinah (our day guard & close friend) told us that God had already revealed to him that we would have to move!  We had planned to take him & his wife, Zo, with us to Antsirabe because they are from Antsirabe to begin with.  They are very excited to be going back to be close to Rinah’s family again (side note: they had also been looking for another house here in Tana for a while, but they had not found anything).  It amazes me how good God is-- I couldn’t even see all these pieces of the puzzle until this very moment I wrote them down!
Thanks to our logistics coordinator, Taisir Emeish, we already have a house in Antsirabe.  We don’t have a set date for our move however, but we are hoping to move in mid to late April during Eli's school break.  We would ask that you pray for us to finish our time here in Tana well.  We would also ask you to pray for our family as we transition to a new city, new house and new school (for Eli) as this has already created a good bit of stress for all of us.  Pray for all of us as we say goodbye to good friends and finish discipleship relationships earlier than expected.  Please also pray specifically that we would have a lot of people that would help us as I (Ruth) will be doing a lot of the sorting, tossing and packing up (because of Andy’s allergy to dust).  Thank you so much for your partnership with us through prayer! 
Thank you also for your prayers for Andy’s day trip to Andilamena today!  He hopes to update soon.

31 January, 2014

Mud butter



I (Andy) want to thank everyone who prayed for me on my recent trip out to the bush as I went to visit the cities Ambatondrazaka & Andilamena!  We had a successful trip to Ambatondrazaka, and were able to meet with a small Baptist church there.  They even gave me some information about two people groups that I was searching for in the area.  One such people group, the Tanosimbohangy, live in a city about 150km from Ambatondrazaka—so I decided to take a ‘quick’ trip up there on Monday, January 20th.  The story below is from my notes on the trip, with some explanations to make it more readable.


I woke early in Ambatondrazaka so that I could make the 4-5 hour trip to Andilamena, where the Tanosimbohangy people live.  I went downstairs at 5:30am to discover that my rear tire was flat!  After about 30 minutes I got the tire changed out with the spare.  I did not feel safe trying to drive on rough roads with out a spare tire so I set about finding a place to get my spare fixed.  I had to wait about 45 minutes to an hour for the mpanamboatra pneus [aka: “tire fixer guy”] to open, and then he had the tire fixed and back in the spare tire spot in no time so I was on my way shortly after 8am.  I started feeling sick to my stomach about 45 minutes into my drive.  [I should mention at this point that we had eaten at a small Malagasy restaurant the night before my trip, and the food was not kind to my stomach] About an hour later, I was able to stop at the last gas station in a town called Tanambe-for which my stomach was thankful.  Then I made my way on the bad road from the north end of the loop road around Lake Alaotra towards Andilamena.  I should have known when I passed through the intersection and there were a lot of trucks parked there, that attempting the journey any further was a mistake.  There was definitely more water (about a foot deep) than when I went tried to go through the first part of the road 2 days prior, but it was passable so I kept on. [Again, I need to mention that there was a steady rain for most of the day Sunday, and it had started again as a constant drizzle at about 9 am, making everything even more wet]   After the early water, there was a few kilometers of better road.  During this stretch, my stomach started to protest again what I had eaten the night before, so I had to find a semi-secluded place to uhm…answer the call of nature.  After that job was done, I got back on the road to Andilamena. 
Then I hit the patch of mud butter, that's the best way I can describe the 1 foot thick mud that I was driving through.  I got stuck, briefly, a couple times and then almost slid slowly off the road due to the 'mud butter;' I even considered turning around at this point but I made it through that tough stretch, and decided to keep going.  I passed another SUV coming from the other direction and asked about the road condition.  He said it was rough but passable if I stayed in the middle of the road, mainly in the ruts left by the trucks that had gone before.  I decided to continue on.  Big.  Mistake. 
I was only able to go another 200-300 meters up the road before seeing nothing but 'mud butter' up ahead, and no real path through it.  I stopped and prayed, and felt that God was telling me that I was not going to get to Andilamena that day.  I was in a spot where I was able to turn around in the middle of this muddy road and started back towards Ambatondrazaka.  The problems got worse when I returned to the bad section of 'mud butter.'  The first time through I had gotten stuck trying to go outside of the ruts left by other vehicles so this time I resolved to follow the ruts and stay out of trouble.  Things were going well early on, then my stomach started to protest again.  I was following the ruts, and went into a large puddle (average size for my driving that day).  I knew as soon as I went in I was in trouble.  This puddle was not just muddy water, it was more like the consistency of a Frosty, and it was easily three feet deep.  So here I am, stuck in the mud, unable to get out of my car because it would have then been flooded with 'frosty mud' and the pain in my stomach has been slowly building telling me that I needed to be anywhere but where I was.  I prayed, and I tried to rock the car back and forth in the puddle in order to get the momentum and maybe even the traction necessary to get free, and the prayed some more.  It felt like forever being stuck in that mud, I truly started getting scared that I would be stuck and have to abandon the truck in the middle of nowhere.  The longer the truck sat the more it would sink into the bed of mud under the Frosty puddle.  I did not even dare climbing out in order to answer nature’s very insistent call because of this fear.  At this point, the nearest village is at least 3 km away and anyone with a truck capable of pulling me out is 10km back at the large intersection.  I prayed more.  I prayed harder.  After a long time (it felt like an hour but was probably like 10 minutes) and a lot of prayer, I was able to escape the 'Frosty mud' pit.  I still had to navigate the rest of the 'mud butter' at this point-but I was praising God.  After I finally made it to a point I could stop (with hopes of being able to move again) I was able to answer nature’s insistent call sheltered by my car.  
I am truly blessed!  God delivered me from being stuck and stranded in a mud pit; there is no other explanation for my escape.  There is no other way I could have gotten out- I had no tow rope, no boards to shim under the tires and I was alone.  As I drove, safely, back to Ambatondrazaka I thought of Psalm 40 and how God had gotten me out of this mess!  "I waited patiently for The Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry.  He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand." (Psalm 40:1-2, NIV)  Total dependence on God is scary, but it is so rewarding.  My reward is not being free of that slimy pit (although that is nice, too) but a closer walk/connection with Him. 
As I returned to Ambatondrazaka people were staring at me, in my mud covered car.  Usually people stare at us here because we are foreigners in their country, but they were genuinely impressed by what they thought my mud covered car signified--that I had conquered some tough road...and with God's help, I guess I had. 

07 January, 2014

Families and Traditions



            
Happy New Year from the Mahoneys!
         A few days ago, it was quite chilly outside (60 degrees or less, and yes that most certainly is chilly for this time of year here;)) because it had been raining so much…so I took the opportunity to make a wonderful, hot & creamy cup of hot chocolate—yum!  To most of you reading this, you might simply glance over the importance of what I just said.  Today is the 7th of January and we have already celebrated Christmas & New years without a bit of snow, “weather outside [being] frightful”, cold air or anything!!  I don’t even like the cold, but it doesn’t feel right to sing certain Christmas songs (especially “Frosty the Snowman” or “Walking in a Winter Wonderland”), hang stockings by the fireplace or wear a nice scarf or Christmas sweater (not the ugly ones that your grandma wears) when you are sweating much of the time.  Likewise, it doesn’t feel the same when your extended family is not with you to share this special time of year. 
            But nearly two years ago before we started this journey so far away from family, God showed me a promise that He had made long ago in Matthew 19:29—“And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands, for my name's sake, will receive a hundredfold…” in another gospel (Mark) Jesus adds at the end “in this life and the life to come”….
Everyone except Eli (our photographer) & Allie who was asleep

     And He has certainly answered that prayer time and time again as we reflect on all His blessings this season.  First, we were so blessed to spend a Christmas meal with our ‘Malagasy family’ who also happen to be our workers.  We shared the Christmas story, ate together and laughed together—we thank God for each of them!!  

We ate together

We laughed together!
            



 Then Christmas Eve, we were blessed again to share a meal with our close friends here in Tana.  We enjoyed sharing in their new tradition of eating cheese fondue on and just enjoying time spent together.  The night ended with gingerbread cake, coffee and excited kids who didn’t want to go to bed!  
All the kids at Christmas Eve (except for Allie)
 
My friend Karina & I














Christmas day and New Year’s day, we enjoyed time with just our own family making new memories and traditions.  
Christmas Day: getting ready to hear the Christmas story

 Perhaps we started a new tradition that when there is no snow for a snowball fight, on Christmas day, you improvise with a water gun fight (especially when it is over 80 degrees outside).  




She loved getting wet!















Confetti!
Happy New Year from the Mahoneys!
 We enjoyed a new meal for Christmas of meatloaf and scalloped potatoes (maybe another tradition started with inspiration from Andy’s family).  We finished with a yummy chocolate birthday cake for Jesus with store bought frosting from America (thanks to our Mill Family)!  For New Years Eve, we baked homemade chocolate chip cookies and started a new tradition of making confetti to throw to bring in the New Year (or at least close enough for Eli’s sake).  The girls brought in the New year as the most adorable sleeping beauties! :)

Sleeping Beauty #2
Sleeping Beauty #1




More fun with confetti on New year's day


She was a big fan!





            



But by far, our favorite tradition we had this holiday season came after the new year.  We had the opportunity, as a family, to visit a nearby orphanage to love on the children and share the gospel with them.   

We talked to about 55 children plus some adults
What a huge blessing it was to our family, to share the gospel with the kids through making salvation bracelets with them, and loving on them (especially the babies)!  It truly warmed my heart so much to see Eli playing soccer with the older kids and holding hands with the director of the orphanage as we walked back from the baby's/ girl's home.  As we were driving home, the kids were talking about how they couldn’t wait to go back and love on the babies again.




      Then Eli asked, “Can’t we just ask them if we can adopt ‘em?”  I wish sweet boy—I really do. 
 
 Unfortunately, this organization doesn’t yet have the ability to legally do this.  Especially during this season when families gather together, it really saddens me to think that none of these precious children will have families to call their own.  But then I am encouraged when I think of what God did and what He has promised in Galatians 4:4-7— “But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.  And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba! Father!  So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God.
       
          Just look how many times it mentions son or father or adoption!  You see, God allowed His Son to leave His forever home to live with an ‘adopted family’ in a temporary place, so that these children (& each of us) could be adopted by God, into His forever family, being co-heirs with Christ and living in His forever home that Jesus has prepared for us.  They (& each of us) can cry out to Him at any point in time, in any hour of need as our one and only Abba Father who loves us more than any earthly father or mother and can fully meet our needs.  He is the only gift at Christmas time that truly lasts and satisfies our souls!